Because complaining wasn’t enough — I had to build something.

Let’s skip the generic intro. Hi, I’m Raf – Designer. Overthinker.

Let’s skip the generic intro.
Hi, I’m Raf – Designer. Overthinker.

Let’s skip the generic intro.
Hi, I’m Raf – Designer. Overthinker.

I’m Raf, a product designer. I’ve been there, stuck in jobs that didn’t value my ideas, my dedication, or my drive to grow. I’m not afraid to try new things, to experiment, or to fail. But I’ve noticed that searching, pushing for something more, can bother some people, like not settling is some kind of flaw.

I often feel frustrated, like I’m not being understood. And honestly, I’m tired of apologizing for caring too much — for giving my best and making others uncomfortable because they think they should be doing more.

That’s why I’m looking for people like me: ambitious, restless, not because we’re unhappy, but because we know we have more to offer. I don’t want to be the one always pushing others. I want to meet the ones who push me to be better. I have a feeling I’m not alone in this.

Let’s skip the generic intro.
Hi, I’m Raf – Designer. Overthinker.

I’m Raf, a product designer. I’ve been there, stuck in jobs that didn’t value my ideas, my dedication, or my drive to grow. I’m not afraid to try new things, to experiment, or to fail. But I’ve noticed that searching, pushing for something more, can bother some people, like not settling is some kind of flaw.

I often feel frustrated, like I’m not being understood. And honestly, I’m tired of apologizing for caring too much — for giving my best and making others uncomfortable because they think they should be doing more.

That’s why I’m looking for people like me: ambitious, restless, not because we’re unhappy, but because we know we have more to offer. I don’t want to be the one always pushing others. I want to meet the ones who push me to be better. I have a feeling I’m not alone in this.

I built this breakroom because I didn’t know what else to try.

For months, maybe years, I’ve been searching for people who, like me, are motivated to do things. People who don’t just talk about ideas but chase them. Somehow I kept ending up in the wrong places, feeling out of place. I went to local meetups, hoping to connect, but always left feeling like I didn’t quite fit.

So I figured, if I can’t find my people, maybe I can build an intentional, creative space where they find me.

This is where I put the things that help me deal with frustration, anxiety, shyness, introversion—all the things that come with being the way I am. And maybe, if you’re reading this, you get it too.

This is just a project. I don’t know where it will go. I only know that I want to share what I’m learning as I push myself to grow. And more than anything, I want to meet people who get it. People who don’t need me to motivate them because they’re already pushing themselves, just like I am.

Maybe this isn’t the usual way to find connection, but it’s the way that felt right to me. So here we are.

Curious,
not qualified.

Curious, not qualified.

I’m not an expert in mental health or human behavior — I’m just someone figuring things out as I go. I’m curious about why I do things the way I do, why some things scare me and others don’t, why I feel stuck, and how I can move forward.

Nothing on this website is truth — it’s just my thoughts, my experiences, and some of the tools I’ve found along the way.

Take what resonates, leave what doesn’t. I’m here to share, not to preach.

A peek inside my head
Proceed with caution.

What’s your favorite podcast episode of all time?

What do you do when you’re not designing or overthinking?

What’s one book that changed the way you see work?

What frustrates you the most about the design industry?

What’s one thing you wish more people understood about being ambitious?

What’s your approach to handling perfectionism?

What’s one lesson you’ve learned the hard way?

If I relate to what you write here, how can I connect with you?

What’s your favorite podcast episode of all time?

What do you do when you’re not designing or overthinking?

What’s one book that changed the way you see work?

What frustrates you the most about the design industry?

What’s one thing you wish more people understood about being ambitious?

What’s your approach to handling perfectionism?

What’s one lesson you’ve learned the hard way?

If I relate to what you write here, how can I connect with you?

What’s your favorite podcast episode of all time?

What do you do when you’re not designing or overthinking?

What’s one book that changed the way you see work?

What frustrates you the most about the design industry?

What’s one thing you wish more people understood about being ambitious?

What’s your approach to handling perfectionism?

What’s one lesson you’ve learned the hard way?

If I relate to what you write here, how can I connect with you?

What’s your favorite podcast episode of all time?

What do you do when you’re not designing or overthinking?

What’s one book that changed the way you see work?

What frustrates you the most about the design industry?

What’s one thing you wish more people understood about being ambitious?

What’s your approach to handling perfectionism?

What’s one lesson you’ve learned the hard way?

If I relate to what you write here, how can I connect with you?

Ambition is a strength,
even when it feels like a weight.

Say it again. And again. And again. Until it sticks.

Say it again. And again.
And again. Until it sticks.

Say it again.
And again.
And again.
Until it sticks.

Say it again. And again.
And again. Until it sticks.

Appreciation starts with acknowledging your own worth.

Something on Your Mind? Drop Me a Line.

Got feedback, a question, or just something to share? I’d love to hear from you. Whether it’s a podcast, book, or conference recommendation—or simply a thought you want to put out there—feel free to reach out. Just one rule: Keep it respectful. Hate messages won’t get a reply—they’ll get blocked.

Something on Your Mind?
Drop Me a Line.

Got feedback, a question, or just something to share? I’d love to hear from you. Whether it’s a podcast, book, or conference recommendation—or simply a thought you want to put out there—feel free to reach out. Just one rule: Keep it respectful. Hate messages won’t get a reply—they’ll get blocked.

Something on Your Mind? Drop Me a Line.

Got feedback, a question, or just something to share? I’d love to hear from you. Whether it’s a podcast, book, or conference recommendation—or simply a thought you want to put out there—feel free to reach out. Just one rule: Keep it respectful. Hate messages won’t get a reply—they’ll get blocked.

Something on Your Mind?
Drop Me a Line.

Got feedback, a question, or just something to share? I’d love to hear from you. Whether it’s a podcast, book, or conference recommendation—or simply a thought you want to put out there—feel free to reach out. Just one rule: Keep it respectful. Hate messages won’t get a reply—they’ll get blocked.

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The Innerroom

In a Nutshell

What’s The Creative Breakroom?

A space for creatives in the digital world to find insights, resources, and guidance to grow, navigate challenges, and embrace healthy perfectionism — because perfectionism isn’t a flaw; it’s a sign you care.

My Vision

To build a community of like-minded professionals who push for better every day — offering support, connection, and inspiration to turn obstacles into growth.

Who I Am, Briefly

I’m Raf, on a journey to understand myself better by embracing doing my best without shame and turning my ambition, fear, and frustration into growth. I built The Creative Breakroom for people like me — and you.

Reads Essentials

The Innerroom

In a Nutshell

What’s The Creative Breakroom?

A space for creatives in the digital world to find insights, resources, and guidance to grow, navigate challenges, and embrace healthy perfectionism — because perfectionism isn’t a flaw; it’s a sign you care.

My Vision

To build a community of like-minded professionals who push for better every day — offering support, connection, and inspiration to turn obstacles into growth.

Who I Am, Briefly

I’m Raf, on a journey to understand myself better by embracing doing my best without shame and turning my ambition, fear, and frustration into growth. I built The Creative Breakroom for people like me — and you.

Reads Essentials

The Innerroom

In a Nutshell

What’s The Creative Breakroom?

A space for creatives in the digital world to find insights, resources, and guidance to grow, navigate challenges, and embrace healthy perfectionism — because perfectionism isn’t a flaw; it’s a sign you care.

My Vision

To build a community of like-minded professionals who push for better every day — offering support, connection, and inspiration to turn obstacles into growth.

Who I Am, Briefly

I’m Raf, on a journey to understand myself better by embracing doing my best without shame and turning my ambition, fear, and frustration into growth. I built The Creative Breakroom for people like me — and you.

Reads Essentials

The Innerroom

In a Nutshell

What’s The Creative Breakroom?

A space for creatives in the digital world to find insights, resources, and guidance to grow, navigate challenges, and embrace healthy perfectionism — because perfectionism isn’t a flaw; it’s a sign you care.

My Vision

To build a community of like-minded professionals who push for better every day — offering support, connection, and inspiration to turn obstacles into growth.

Who I Am, Briefly

I’m Raf, on a journey to understand myself better by embracing doing my best without shame and turning my ambition, fear, and frustration into growth. I built The Creative Breakroom for people like me — and you.